Begging, blaming and hurling insults are usual factors present in every break up but this could ruin our dignity and self-esteem just as much as it can damage our relationship. To preserve ourselves from this humiliating event, better try a more fashionable way of getting out of a bad relationship. Sooner or later, you will be forced to move on no matter how much emotional investment had you put in that relationship of yours.
Putting an end to what once had been a healthy relationship is not easy, whether you or your partner is to blame. However, you can handle a break up in such a fashion that it would be easier for both of you to move on. Here are some tips on how to be fashionable with your break up.
Proper Way of Communication
The lack of proper communication is the usual reason for a break up especially the manner on how it is usually delivered. How can two people understand and respect each other after they ended up their relationship hurting each other with foul words and blames. Understand that a breaking up decision does not suddenly pop out of your minds. It takes a lot of reasons before you or your partner decides that everything is over between the two of you. It always takes two to tango. So why not try to make that last piece of communication more comprehensible. To make this, you need to allow acceptance of the fact that the romantic part of your relationship is over. Communicating properly is hard when you are on the verge of an emotional breakage. So, if you think you can’t handle this quite well, set it up on another time. What is important is that you are able to handle yourself at the time you will be delivering your final piece. Calmness and control are two important factors that must be present while you deliver it. While you are cool, your partner will never have the chance to ruin your emotion and self-respect.
The scene is another important factor that you must consider. Set it up in a more private place for your last drama. Be sure to set it up on a neutral ground and in an appropriate time. Don’t hold it in view of the public as it could elicit negative responses.
Give each other a time to listen. Failure to listen leads to misunderstanding. Usually women love to talk even nonsense things and so much more with how they feel when they are with their love one. Men on the other side love to listen or make her woman feel that he is listening. So you can easily spot it once your partner’s attention starts to wander somewhere else. No matter how hurting and sensitive your farewell is, doing it with such tact will merit each other’s respect somehow. If you are the one leaving, be straight to the point and explain your reasons for doing it. Be honest about it for he deserves an explanation. But avoid saying things that could make matters worse like telling him you’re leaving him for another man or that he is boring, even if there is truth in it.
Nasty breakups are always characterized by bitterness. This happens when one or both of you were not given a chance to say what he wants to say. Allow question to be answered and no pretenses. Try to be soothing and comforting when you are the one who had inflicted such hurting but you need not be swayed in your decision. Make it clear to your partner that you had long decided to have this break up and say it with finality. Starting all over again will only lead you to where you once had been.
Separation in a relationship can be traumatic but just a temporary set back in life that one can easily get through depending on how it is handled. It’s just a matter of choosing how you make your grand exit after a series of highlighted events in your life and then make a sudden reentry with a bang! Top 10 List Pakistani Dramas 2020 This article teaches you to handle this little drama in your life in the most fashionable way you can.
There is more to the show, Gossip Girl, than gorgeous rich kids, couple switching and all that teenage drama. Aside from its racy and bold depiction of what American teenagers are really like behind closed doors, the show also boasts of its massive Gossip Girl fan sites and huge fan base all over the world. Because of its popularity among its huge market, even fashion moguls have dipped their finger in making this teen-oriented show break new grounds. Now, Gossip Girl is not only a reference about pop culture. It also gives a forecast of the hottest in fashion through Gossip Girl pictures and images we see on the show and portals of the internet.
If you are truly a fan of the show, you must have taken note of how your favorite Gossip Girl don her fashion. To help you get that Gossip Girl glow, here are some tips that you might want to look into to rock Serena, Blair or Jenny’s fashion vibe.
Serena van der Woodsen: It’s all about the hair.
Being the IT girl in the Upper East Side of Manhattan, Serena’s fashion is distinctly regal and laid-back at the same time. Her boho-chic look combines vintage and a rock star feel making her the girl of every guy’s dream.
To get Serena’s look, you must stack up on well-tailored jackets, skinny jeans and accessories. In the show, Serena cannot be caught dead without a cute piece of accessory thrown together with a cute top, tight-fit jeans and boots. Her eclectic mix of feminine fashion has been toned down by the sexiness and masculine appeal of her boots.
When talking about Serena’s fashion, it is impossible to look over her beautiful long blonde hair. Her hair has a wild and wavy feel to it that gives new meaning to the phrase ‘crowning glory’. Her porcelain skin doesn’t require her to apply a lot of makeup. Instead, put on a neutral lip shade and load on colorless lip gloss to get Serena’s shine.
Blair Waldorf: It’s all about the head bands and ribbons.
Blair Waldorf’s doll appeal is unmistakable. Being a daughter of a fashion designer herself, it is not surprising for her to be so fashion forward and flamboyant in dressing up. Clad in cute and flowy dresses with delicate fabrics, Blair exudes a very strong feminine charm. We usually see Blair in short dresses with powerful prints that hug her petite body. She keeps the accessories to a minimum with her head band being the centerpiece. Her head bands have big ribbons that frame her doll face perfectly. If you are a true blue fan of hers, you’d notice that her head bands match stilettos and pumps, too. Be brave to don her look and come out as the undeniable Queen Bee of your group.
When it comes to makeup, Blair channels all our attention towards her lips by applying plum or red lipstick with lots of lip gloss. She puts on light eye makeup, but applies a lot of mascara and traces her lids with black eyeliner to reinforce the look.
Jenny Humphrey: It’s all about the eye makeup.
We have seen Jenny blossom from an awkward young girl to a fashionista the instant she tried to steal the Queen Bee spot from Blair Waldorf. Although she has been a bit unsuccessful in dethroning the brunet, Jenny is still keeping a lot of score because of the experimental and original fashion sense she has developed.